I’m going through changes....

 Hello,  It’s been a while since I wrote a real blog post. A lot has changed and I’m here to fill you in a bit on those changes.  The first is that I no longer session from the large space near Columbia. That space is closed. As lovely as it was - there was just one thing after another operating from that commercial space. From the moment pen hit paper I feel like it was “cursed.” If anything could go wrong - it did! At least in my own personal experience.  The best thing that could have happened was to get away from that space and keep it simple and continue to session from my residential space. Where I don’t have to watch over my shoulder, no partners, no one to share a space or time with. Just me and my home oasis.  So starting later in August or as late as early September I will be offering sessions from my residential play space on Kent Island only. It’s not 1500 square feet, but its fully equipped with anything you really need to make all your kinky dreams come true.  Corporal, s

My fetish list!

 Here's a list of play that I'm into! If you don't see your interests on this list - email me to ask. My areas of interest are always evolving and expanding!   Into: adult baby (giving) aftercare (everything to do with it) anal (watching) anal beads (giving) anal stretching (watching others wear) ass play (giving) ass to mouth (watching) ball gags (watching others wear) ball kicking (giving) ball stretching (giving) ball-busting (giving) bare bottom spanking (giving) bare handed spanking (giving) barefoot ball-busting (giving) bathroom use control (giving) begging (receiving) behavior modification (giving) belt spanking (giving) biting (giving) blindfolds (giving) bondage (giving) bondage tape (giving) breast spanking (giving) breast/nipple play (giving) bruises (giving) butt plugs (watching others wear) caging/confinement (giving) candle wax (giving) cbt (giving) chastity (watching others wear) clamps and clips (watching others wear) clothespins (giving) cock and ball tort

Micro Man (sph)

 The headline says it all! But for the sake of writing an entry...I'll go in to some details.  A few weeks back you may have seen an image I posted that's supposed to be a penis. When I first saw it, it looked like a huge clit..which would have been awesome! But it wasn' was his uber tiny member. And it caught me by surprise when my eyes laid on that microscope Johnson. I said to myself, "he didn't specifically ask for SPH, but I've I've to make fun of it..I've got too!" To my pleasure, he was fine with SPH...phew!! Because it would have been hard not to make fun of that sad thing.  After some impact warm ups we moved on to some CBT...but there is basically no C to T...however, I'm a good Domme and good Dommes make it happen. But before making it happen, I had to send a photo of this "penis" to my sister, Nyx. I had to share it with someone and I wanted her to see just how my day was going. She replied in disbelief! I remember t

Please, no marks.

 Hi, My name is Vidian Vixen and I’m a Corporal Dominatrix. But you knew that already!! If you don’t want marks, but you want or are Ok with impact play - you need to understand that theres a possibility that you will leave with a mark or two. Granted some light impact play will leave a mark that will likely be gone by the time you make it to your next destination, but the only guarantee that there will be no marks is not playing with impact toys. And I just don't want to play with people who aren’t open to some pain.  Maybe you have sensitive skin, maybe you’ve never played with light or medium impact before and your skin tells you within the first few moments that you aren’t going to be able to play with impact without some markings. You just have to be open to the possibility that you’ll leave with something somewhere to remember me by.  With that being said - when a client comes in and they are new to me or new to seeing a pro domme and they tell me that they don't want mar

New video interview - Now LIVE Nyx and I had a good time talking to Nicolas from Your Kinky Friends on her birthday last month.  Take a listen — maybe you were referenced (anonymously of course) 

What a slut!

 My sister, Nyx and I had a wonderful session the other night! A double domme with a gent we renamed “Brandy” for the night. We picked that name because it sounds like a really slutty name - Brandy, to us, is a 40 something mother who’s partied hard her whole life and despite having kids and responsibilities. Brandy just can not stop partying and is constantly roaming dive bars for some new dick. Brandys children dont even call her mom, just Brandy since they dont respect her. She’s always bringing home new boyfriends that last 2 weeks while telling her kids that they should be calling him “Dad.” Brandy still does lines on the weekend and comes home with her hair in shambles, holes in her tights and one heal broken off her shoe. She’s a real party girl who dresses like she belongs on the hood of a El Camino listening to White Snake taking loads in her ass from bikers. AND Brandy just happened to visit us on International Women’s Day so it seemed appropriate to focus on some forced fem

High Protocol Domme

 I’m just going to say it.... I AM A HIGH PROTOCOL DOMINATRIX.  If you don’t know what that means - you need to further educate yourself in kink/bdsm. But since you are here this is what it means.   “ A strict dictionary definition would be, “a code prescribing strict adherence to a pre-determined etiquette.” In the BDSM context, protocols are the rules of behavior for Masters/Mistresses and slaves“ So now you know what High Protocol means.  When I get a text that simply says “you available” its an automatic red flag for me and I likely wont reply to you since you clearly haven’t done any homework about me before reaching out. It tells me that you are uninterested in a real mistress/sub experience and that you probably woke up with a hard dick...watched some femdom porn and texted every domme on to see which one would get back to you first. It tells me you are untrained and likely unwilling to learn any dif